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‘Daring greatly’ & the meaning of sport

On Sunday night I watched the final of the European Championship with my son and a group of intensely passionate 16 year olds.

Other members of my family stayed in their rooms. They never watched a single kick.

To the boys in my front room, the result left them distraught. To others upstairs, it meant almost nothing.

The contrast is not just one of personal preference or interest. It illustrates an enduring ambivalence around sport: on one level it matters hugely, in another it matters very little.

Meaningless

In one way, sport is meaningless. It is essentially a contrived contest based on arbitrary physical activity: in this case 11 people against another 11 trying to kick an inflated object into a net.

In of itself, none of this activity changes much. No land changes hands. No one’s liberation depends on the outcome. It is not The Hunger Games. Military language such as clash, battle and army may be used, but this is not actually life or death.

Significance

But in another way, sport matters hugely because of its manifest power.

Sport creates joy, stress, happiness, belonging and excitement like few other things can. The boys in my front room last night were not pretending to be happy when England scored, or gutted when the penalties were missed. It was deep and visceral.

What other kind of event can create such passion? And what else could produce the kind of hope and positivity in our country in the last few weeks? This is why politicians continually attempt to lever the power of sport for their own ends.

The key to sports meaning

This ambivalence about sport is because its meaning is wrapped up in meaninglessness.  Society has chosen to inject significance into activities which are essentially unimportant because they enjoy playing and watching them.

But the qualities that sport demands and develops could not be more important. Sport develops teamwork, dedication, focus, ambition, physical and mental resilience, restraint, humility and self-awareness. Sport can help us deal with failure and accept defeat graciously.

These ‘sporting’ attitudes can make us better people.

Rewarding

Over the last 40 years, sport has given me an incalculable amount.  I will never forget the joy of being part of my 6th form school football team or my University cricket team. And some of the most rewarding times I have ever had have been coaching kids football and cricket teams.

I still play league cricket every week and love the competitiveness.  Winning is so much more fun than losing and if I have done badly on a Saturday, it takes me until at least Tuesday to get over it.

I am continually reminded that sport generates strong emotions that need controlling and managing.

Life and death

Often, these emotions are not managed well. Abuse and hatred are stoked by competitiveness. Sport is used as a vehicle for sickening racism and violence.

The legendary Liverpool FC manager, Bill Shankly, famously said:

Some people think football is a matter of life and death. I don’t like that attitude. I can assure them it is much more serious than that.

It’s a good line, but it’s not true. None of Liverpool’s many trophies are worth one of the lives lost at the Hysel or Hillsborough disasters.

Sport is never more serious than life and death: but it can help us deal better with both.

Striving valiantly

Today, I read this quote (from US President Teddy Roosevelt) shared alongside the photo above of Gareth Southgate hugging 19 year old Bukayo Saka:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again… who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.”

Inspired

Nothing is easier than being an armchair critic or keyboard warrior. Its far better to be challenged and inspired by those whose teamwork, talent and dedication means they are representing our country on the biggest stage.

After all, everyone has their own arenas in which we need to strive more valiantly and to dare more greatly.

4 thoughts on “‘Daring greatly’ & the meaning of sport”

  1. Beautiful, Jon, and the Roosevelt quote is perfect for the moment. Criticism in the immediate aftermath is a sad response; much, much worse of course is abuse in the immediate aftermath. I am so saddened by some of the verbal violence towards the England team following this (narrow) defeat, even feeling ashamed by association. I try to find compassion in my heart for those perpetuating the abuse, knowing it comes from some deep personal hurt, but man, it is hard! Sport indeed has immense power that can be wielded in the cause of both love and fear. Thank you for the reminder.

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  2. Another wonderful blog Jon. And the Roosevelt quote stands the test of time magnificently. I remember that Stephen Fry put critics in his room 101 with the stinging rebuke that for critics things (plays, films, football teams, politicians) always fail on at least two levels, preferably more.

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    1. Thanks Jeremy. In the homelessness world, I have always found the views of those who have actually managed and run outreach or accommodation services to be so much more grounded, balanced and credible than many of the louder voices who often get the spotlight. Similarly, those with lived experience so often have a similar balance from ‘being in the arena’ which does not easily fit within the proscribed boundaries of ‘accepted’ views!

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